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  1. Sick Wannabe-Lover says:

    Dear Sex & Pancakes Author,

    I currently have an STI. I recently started dating again, and while I still have to figure out how to bring up this somewhat touchy subject with my new partner, I’m mostly concerned with figuring out how to keep sex hot & heavy while rocking a dental dam. I’m having a hard time imagining how I’m supposed to keep up sexual intimacy while having a contagious STI. Will it mean it’s either carefully getting head through a latex layer or keeping my panties on forever? I have no-one in my surroundings who has ever used a dental dam (which is very shocking, but another topic at this point). Even the oh-so-wise world wide web hasn’t been all that informative when it comes to the actual reality of practicing safer sex for lesbians in day-to-day life. Any advice/resources?

    Thanks for any help you can offer!

    • Melissa says:

      Hey there! Thanks for your question/comment 🙂
      I’ve written a past column in response to someone living with type 2 herpes who was looking for some help on making dental dams sexy. You might find some answers to your question in that and if ever you have more questions feel free to comment again with them. Best of luck!

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